First, I would like to announce the winner of the Name That Recipe contest for last weeks Lamb and Pumpkin Recipe. I let my 15 year old, Coby, pick the winner and after much deliberation and deep, deep thought – he decided on: Halloween Hash by Stefanie. Thank you Stefanie and thank you Coby for picking a great entry – I loved all of them!!
Now, on to the good stuff.
Before you started eating paleo, did food rule your life? It ruled mine. I had such a sucky relationship with food. I loved, and still do love food but I was constantly trying to do things better, “eat right”, stay away from this, add that back in, eat more, eat less,so I zoned, Atkined, South Beached, and Suzanne Somered, and what I did was I ate my way straight to the looney bin along with adding on pounds, health issues, and total confusion about what was good for me! To make a long story short, I finally was introduced to eating paleo and EVERYTHING changed, but, it was not an overnight light bulb moment. I have been asked before how long it took me to, “get paleo eating down.” The truth is, eating paleo is about the freaking easiest thing on the planet, it was getting my head right that was the learning curve. Eating paleo is so easy in fact that I tried my darnedest to make it as hard as possible. I freaked out over EVERYTHING. I remember sobbing to Robb Wolf almost daily at the gym – Robb, is this paleo, is that paleo is THIS OR THAT OR THIS PALEO until he looked at me one day and said, “Well, how do you feel?” I thought for a minute and realized that I felt pretty amazing and before he even replied I knew the answer, all that I was eating was paleo and paleo for me, and today I darn well know it when I eat something that is not paleo for me – because my body let’s me know in often extremely vicious ways! This whole “paleo thing” is not a one size fits all program. In fact, it’s not a program. It’s life and a better life because eating paleo means eating food that makes you feel amazing instead of fat, lazy, unhealthy, and sick. If you felt ok before, eating paleo might mean maximizing your potential and realizing that just feeling ok is pretty lousy compared to feeling VITALITY!!
Furthermore, what eating paleo looks like for me will look a whole lot different to someone with autoimmunity issues, allergies, or type II diabetes (to name a few). I am relatively lean and healthy at this point in my life so therefore, my paleo eating includes a few more yams and apple slices then it used to. When I was sick and fat, eating paleo for me meant very little fruit, only after a work out would I partake in yams and no nacho nights ever until I reached my goal weight and no longer suffered from the little health afflictions that I used to suffer from. Eating paleo for someone with food allergies is very different then my eating paleo. I’m ok eating a handful of nuts but a good friend of mine turns into an itchy, hive ridden mess so nuts are NOT paleo for her. Am I making sense? Now let’s dig a little deeper, what about vinegar, what about sea salt, what about the occasional use of a bit of raw honey, or baking soda, bananas, carrots, and coconut milk or God forbid red wine in my spaghetti sauce or a shot of tequila on Friday night?? Did cave people have an abundance of this stuff? Most likely not but they also lacked cars, farmers markets, and Trader Joe’s, and the last time I checked, I do not carry a club, wear antelope hair tunics, or greet my children with an UGH in the morning (unless I haven’t yet had my coffee). We could argue and debate for hours about how yams are a good source of carbs for post workout recovery meals (and healthy kids should eat them whenever), how baking soda is found in nature by mineral springs and is helpful in regulating blood acidity for endurance athletes, how vinegar probably won’t kill you if you toss some on your salad now and then, or that bananas, although of no real nutritional value, are nice to have around in case you are hankering for something sweet and it’s a better option then – oh I don’t know a donut??
Some of the stuff on that thrown together list is not paleo for some people and for some folks, now and then it’s about as paleo as you can get. So, when you feel like you are suffocating or turning into a paleo junky – think about how you feel? Are you lean, healthy, and continue to perform well in the gym? Then you are probably eating paleo, and that’s what eating paleo means – to YOU. If you feel like crap, gaining weight or not losing weight, or not coming close to reaching any of your fitness goals, it’s time to reassess! Maybe you are letting grains or dairy sneak back in, maybe you’re living on nuts between meals, and “paleo treats” (like my awesome nutty cookies) are turning into mainstays rather then now and then’s.
I do not know a single person who can sit down and list everything that is or is not paleo for EVERYONE because the truth is we are all very different with very different health concerns. The BOTTOM LINE IS, stick to the basics for this lifestyle, ALWAYS AVOID GLUTEN, and DO eat meat, seafood, veggies, a little bit of fruit, and good fats, but do not make yourself nutty – just eat what makes you feel good, and if you do not feel well, there’s probably something you are eating that’s not paleo – for you! Continue to educate yourself – listen to Robb Wolf’s podcasts, read books, search the internet – we live in the age of information at our fingertips but the best “science” is how you feel, look and perform.
Here’s a fun recipe that I made for lunch today with what I had in my fridge.
Shrimp Loves Coconut
1 lb large shrimp, tail on peeled and deveined
1/3 cup coconut flour
½ teaspoon sea salt
¼ teaspoon cayenne pepper
3 egg whites
2 cups coconut flakes
Pre heat oven to 400. In a mixing bowl, stir together the coconut flour, salt, and cayenne pepper. In a separate bowl, beat the egg whites until foamy. In another bowl, pour the coconut flakes. Taking one shrimp at a time, dry well with a paper towel and dredge each shrimp in the coconut flour mixture, dip into the egg whites and then roll into the coconut flakes. Bake on a lightly greased (with coconut oil) baking sheet for 12- 15 minutes or until the shrimp are pink and the coconut flakes start to brown.
Enjoy!

What a great post! I think everybody struggles with eating paleo and the guilt when you don’t. Lately I have come to the conclusion that it is more important to be eating mostly paleo foods and if some other foods make it on to your plate every now and then that are not paleo then who cares because most of your meal IS paleo foods.
Delicious! Thanks so much for sharing! I love the coconut shrimp at Red Lobster but obviously that is not even remotely healthy and wanted to recreate it! This was perfect! My only regret is that I wish I had read further down about the apricot sauce idea – that was definitely missing but I’ll make it again with that new addition!
Hi Sarah
First of all, thanks for the awesome website! I’ve been eating Paleo for the best part of a year and this site makes the lifestyle so much easier. Paleo for me is about recovery. I injured my back a few years ago and little did I realise, the regular diets hindered the recovery of my back rather than helping it. I was one of those who freaked out about what was Paleo and what wasnt. Now I think back and think “Dude, its so simple. stop fretting!”
Recently I’ve been cooking Paleo meals for the rest of my family once a week. I pick a recipe, get the ingredients and cook away! They always say how delicious the meals are so thanks for that!
How, though, would you go about introducing more and more Paleo options to a family who really has not much history with trying to eat healthy? Dont get me wrong, the meals are always cooked with fresh ingredients and from scratch, but we all want to see loved ones live a little longer. Paleo IS the way to do this.
I go into detail in my book as to how one can successfully introduce paleo to a family so that might be helpful!! http://www.amazon.com/dp/098256581X/ref=cm_sw_su_dp Also, if you go on my blog under required reading there are several posts about paleo and kids and paleo and family that might help as well. Best of luck to you!! http://everydaypaleo.com/category/required-reading/
Thanks for this great article. I needed it after I and another girl battled with the writer on facebook spewing garbage to people who follow his training methods (Here is the article link https://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=10150272372502602) People read one article and feel they are an expert at the subject and find people to go paleo bashing with him. I am so grateful to have found and learned a better way to eat. My battle with food was whether it was gonna hurt me physically after I eat it. I couldn’t understand why I was still sluggish and bloated while eating “clean”. Eating paleo has been a Godsend and so is your website! My family started eating Paleo 3 months ago but I was wondering if you had any ideas for a paleo birthday cake. My husband doesn’t care but my kids are still young and will expect a cake.
Hey Sarah,
Still waiting for my book from Amazon! Thanks 
Thanks for this post. I am definitely one of those people who over thinks stuff, but for me I haven’t found switching to paleo super easy. I guess part of this is that I am not quite the standard person who is trying to change their body composition and lose weight – I am in good physical condition, work out a lot and need to eat at least 3000+ calories a day, and I have found getting the macronutrient ratio right a bit tricky (I think I have been trying to eat like someone who is trying to sort their body composition, whereas I don’t really need to do that, and I need to eat a lot of calories, and if I don’t include a reasonable amount of carbohydrate then I can’t get enough calories in without making myself feel nauseous eating hundreds of grams of fat).
I find if I don’t eat enough then I just end up craving sugar, and feeling that I don’t have enough energy for my workouts, so I have recently decided to up the sweet potatoes and pumpkin and add in some more fruit.
Anyway, love the podcast and blog
Lily
Sarah, thanks for another great post. You are so right about knowing when you are straying too much, or if a particular food is not working out. I know that since changing my diet over to Paleo and feeling great, I know pretty quickly when I eat something that my body doesn’t like. Before, I just felt crappy all the time, so it just became degrees of crappy. Now, I know what really being healthy feels like.
Love your book, your recipes, your podcast, blog, and your positive outlook.
Thank you so much Cathy!!
Paleo for me has been on and off for quite some time. The one thing I am noticing is that I no longer have a choice. I have to eat Paleo. When I eat grains, any type, I retain anywhere from 2 to 5 pounds of water and it will take a couple of days for my body to let go of it. I am having a hard time finding anything on the web that really can explain this as most articles say whole grains are supposed to help. Do you (or any of your readers) have any explanation? I would just like to have an idea of what causes such a dramatic increase in water retention. Thanks.
Hey Christine,
I hope this helps, one of the first things reduced carbohydrate intake does is to rid our bodies of excess water. This was taken from Livestrong.com and hopefully it helps!
“carbohydrates cause your kidneys to hoard salt instead of excrete it. Once your body’s salt content rises, your water content must also rise to keep the ratio of salt to bodily fluid steady. When you cut carbs, your body can let go of both the salt and the water it was retaining. This is why low-carb diets often produce a quick initial weight loss — the dieter isn’t losing any body fat, but he is losing several pounds of retained salt and water.”
Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/309135-can-a-high-carb-diet-cause-you-to-retain-water/#ixzz1siIF4Fzg
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